We live in a time when we constantly put ourselves next to other people. When we compare how we work, our personal lives, or how liked we are, it is quite easy to get the impression that we are not well at all. Therefore, it is important to remember that it is not natural and that it is not cool.
That people are better than us is a thought that comes from a few things. There is a lot of pressure from society, we are insecure about ourselves, and social media makes it look like everyone else’s life is perfect. We see all the good stuff people post, but we don’t see what they go through. It makes us think they have everything sorted out and feel like we are not doing as well.
That’s more complicated, though. Everybody is unique, and everybody has their own challenges and achievements. We always get only a small part of other people’s lives, and usually, it is the better part. We do not notice the struggles and failures they have. It is useless for us to compare ourselves to that.
Moreover, failing to appreciate ourselves because we think that other people are better than us is overlooking the fact that every person has his or her own worth. Furthermore, there are things that we can offer the world. Just because one is talented at something does not mean that we are not talented elsewhere. In fact, it is crucial to acknowledge our strengths and accomplishments, even if they may appear insignificant to others.
It is also crucial to know that success is not limited. Just because someone else succeeds, doesn’t mean there’s less success for us. Seeing other people doing well can actually motivate us to do better too. Instead of considering others as rivals, we should be supportive and collaborate with one another.
No one is perfect. In fact, everyone has their weaknesses and uncertainties, even those we admire. Realizing this helps relieve us of the burden of being flawless and makes it easier for us to associate with others.
Therefore, thinking that somebody else is better than me is quite unhelpful. This makes us feel bad about ourselves and leads to pointless competition among us. Instead, we should concentrate on our strengths, revel in our achievements, and assist one another. You deserve success just as much as anybody else does.
A message from a friend:
I have received a message from my friend, who shared something with me. He said that he had another friend, who looked like his twin only better — slimmer, more attractive, more famous, talented in videogames and singing, and simply better than him in everything else. This kind of comparison makes my friend feel insufficient like he doesn’t need to address his own problems compared to the issues other people have. Basically, he thinks that his friend is like nothing to him, and he is not motivated by this overshadowing. P.S. After all this, he’s glad for his friend and still wants the best for him.
And here is what I would like to send to him.
Message to my friend:
Dear Friend,
I heard your message, and you should know that I got it. It feels bad to be in the shade, more so when someone close to you, like a best friend, is responsible. Let me tell you something straight away; you are not worthless at all. You have your own talents, unique personality features, and strong points.
I know it may look like your friend is just a better copy of yourself. He might be skinnier, cooler, and better at video games or music than you. However, let me interrupt you right there. Comparing yourself with him would not be fair enough. Both of you are dissimilar people, each proceeding on their own path.
I can see where you’re coming from, but I also see where you’re going. You have the power to make a uniquely different life for yourself, apart from living under your friend’s shadow all the time. Start by accepting what sets them apart from one another. Find new hobbies, take up various roles, and follow things that excite or interest people so as to feel alive again in life because this will help define who we truly are as individuals, thereby constructing our self-confidence through differentiation
“Keep your eyes on your own paper,” as the saying goes. This is a straightforward yet profound reminder that you should focus on your own path instead of being diverted by what others are doing.
Your friend may be better than you in some respects, but that does not reduce your worth or potential. You have something unique to offer to this world.
We can also talk about victory and success. It isn’t all about being number one in everything. It is enjoying the journey, having fun, and finding fulfillment in things that matter most to you. What matters most is whether you enjoy playing video games or not, just make sure you are happy with yourself.
Your friend may seem like they have it all, but appearances deceive. The quality of your friendship and how well you treat each other with respect and kindness is what truly counts. Cherish the bond you share and concentrate on nurturing it rather than comparing yourselves to each other.
In conclusion, I want you to know that I value you, you deserve respect, and just as much as anyone else, there isn’t anything wrong with me saying otherwise about my worthiness. Embrace your uniqueness; celebrate your strengths; remember that this road belongs only to us alone. Never allow comparisons to steal your joy and dampen your spirit — you are enough! Create an authentic life for yourself.
My friend stay true to yourself and never forget who you are.
With love and support,